The Labels We Wear After Dark: What We Actually Mean in Bed

If you have not read Top, Dom, Master, Sadist—Aren’t Those the Same Thing?, start there for the clean framework: activity, authority, sensation, title, and context are different dimensions. This is the after-dark version. It asks what those distinctions change when clothes come off, toys come out, and two adults have to turn an exciting label into a scene that is actually wanted.